Strange sexual behaviour of Naughty Kids

Kids develop sexually, just as they develop physically, emotionally and socially. This process begins at birth and continues through childhood. Even young kids have sexual feelings and engage in sexual behaviour (such as touching their sex parts or saying dirty words).

Sometimes, sexual behaviours becomes a problem when it is persistent, aggressive, occurs in public or involves other kids in harmful ways. It can also be a probable if the family does not consider the behaviour normal or acceptable. Since sexual behaviour is learned, in most cases it is the result of what kids have seen or experienced. Kids may see sexual behaviour of parents, older sibling or baby sitters, or on television and in magazines. Some kids who are sexually abused act out sexually or become sexualized. In families where there is a lot of conflict or stress, kids may begin to act in sexual ways. Other factors may contribute to sexual behavior problems, including trouble controlling impulses, difficulty getting along with others, or not being watched closely enough by parents or caregivers.

However unusual sexual behaviour begin, it can soon take on a life of its own. It may continue because it feels good, or is calming or distracting. Some kids may develop a habit of touching their sexual behaviour continues because it gets attention (usually in the form of a shocked reaction from adults) or because it is forbidden and exciting to other kids. Some kids seem to develop strong sexual urges that they have trouble controlling by themselves. Aggressive sexual behaviour is most often seen in kids who have other behaviour problems and a lot of anger and hostility.

It is important to deal directly with the kid's behaviour as well as why is started. If the kids have been sexually abused, exposed to sexually explicit behaviour, or there are family problems, these problems need to be addressed as well.

Finally-Common Parental reactions-

In may causes, parents are the first ones to notice that their child is behaving in a sexually unusual or inappropriate way. They may not be sure that it really is a problem or know what to do about it. Sometimes parents assume that the cause must be sexual abuse. Since this is a common cause of unusual sexual behaviour, the possibility of sexual abuse is important to consider but is not necessarily the only explanation. Parents who are seriously concerned their child has been sexually abused should seek immediate professional help.